Training Day

Submitted by Bill St. Clair on Sat, 2008-11-22 07:08.

Bill Whittle attends sexual harassment training, and feels harassed.

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It is not the intent of the alleged harasser, but the impact on the recipient.

It doesn’t matter if you meant to hurt someone. As long as someone was hurt, then harassment took place.

Now at the end of all this, the facilitator – who is clearly a lovely person, for this is not aimed at her – smilingly told us not to be paranoid but just to be careful not to offend anyone. And the other 23 people nodded happily and made jokes and goofed around to show how lighthearted and un-paranoid we suddenly all were. And yet, this harassment and sensitivity training did not succeed fully, because there was one person who was offended, and who in point of fact felt extremely harassed. And that person was me.

Perhaps, in future editions of the handbook, we can add another victim group to the protected category: rational adults. Perhaps I might contribute a chapter to this sensitivity training. Something like:

“The rational adult is a small and shrinking minority in the workplace. His cultural heritage – which is just as valuable as anyone else's! – has taught him that “personal responsibility” means he has a right to feel insulted, offended and harassed when being lectured on things that he did not do, nor would ever contemplate doing. In this ancient and primitive culture, a person’s “honor” and “integrity” are relied upon to govern behavior. If such a person unknowingly gives insult, they will “apologize.” According to their tribal ethics, people who intentionally harm, insult or harass others deserve to be fired on the spot.”

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It's worse than that
Submitted by Kent McManigal (not verified) on Sat, 2008-11-22 12:29.

Sometimes, it isn't even whether the "victim" is "hurt", but whether others who are not even involved are offended. This happened to me. I was "written up" for sexual harrassment and my "victim" apologized to me, saying she didn't think anything inapproriate had occurred. It was just that a manager, who was trying to impress the boss, witnessed the event and decided that harrassment had taken place, regardless of what anyone else thought.

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